THOUGHTS

27.04.2025
Very often, we fall into the trap of believing that our strengths and values come from external sources—the support of friends, family, or the validation of society. However, this notion couldn't be more false. True strength emanates from within ourselves, from our own determination. Often, what we perceive as vulnerability is, in fact, a profound quality. A quality that shows our authenticity and our capacity to grow. Contrary to people belief, being vulnerable is not a weakness; it is a testament to our humanity and depth of character. In my own experience, the journey to write my life story was not an easy path. It took me several years, filled with moments of doubt and uncertainty, to finally accomplish what I had set out to do. Although I was positive about my plans and excited to share my story, the moment I started writing, negativity took over. Questions filled my mind, creating a storm of self-doubt: "Who will ever read your book? Why would people care about what you have to say? Is there anything extraordinary in your life that deserves an audience?" These doubts haunted me, shaking my confidence and filling my mind with thoughts that easily deter me from pursuing my dream. I found myself questioning my worth and the significance of my story. But then, in the middle of my internal struggle, I took a moment to look around me. What I saw was profoundly sad. I observed people who, despite their great potential, were loosing their own battles. Some had succumbed to addictions, searching for moments of reprieve through substances, only to find themselves trapped in cycles of despair. Others were deepened in depression, suffering from low self-esteem and lack of self-worth, unable to see a way out of their darkness. It was through this experience, that I took my decision. I realized that my own struggles, though significant, paled in comparison to what many others were facing, however I was not that far. So I decided to write my story, to share my journey, to demonstrate that faith in God and self-strength can lead us to heights we never thought imaginable, without needing to fall into the lies of addictions. My hope for my book is simple but profound. I want to provide a drop of hope and resolution to everyone who reads it. I wish to reach those who are struggling in their own lives, who may feel overwhelmed by negativity and toxic environments. I want my readers to understand that the situations they find themselves in today are not permanent. Life is dynamic and always changing; it doesn't have to end in catastrophic consequences. Each person possesses the power to change their life. The key to turning one's life around lies in the realization that they are more than just victims of their circumstances. They are warriors, capable of fighting against the odds pushed against them. I firmly believe that every human has the strength to rise above their challenges and create a life that reflects their deepest desires. The journey to free oneself from a toxic environment is undoubtedly difficult; however, I can confidently promise that the worse the battle is, the sweeter the victory will be. I urge everyone to take that leap of faith, to confront the fears that paralyze them, and to embark on the path toward their own salvation. It might require leaving behind people, places, or habits that harm their mental and physical well-being, but it's essential for creating a healthier and a fulfilling life. It's vital to leave behind negativity, and to surround oneself with positivity and love from within. Ultimately, our lives matter. We all have something unique to share. Life is about growth, learning, and evolving into the best versions of ourselves. Embrace your fears, and recognize that your journey, no matter how challenging, deserves a happy end. Our life is precious. Together, we can turn our struggles into strengths and be united into a community of warriors ready to fight for their dreams.